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Bill Gerace's avatar

Shira, this was an awesome piece. It was so encouraging and yet gives you rock-solid advice on what you need to do to protect your mental outlook as a writer. I know I personally get upset when I get a rejection letter or when I see, for example, on my Substack, I write posts, and it seems no one reads them. But I am developing a new outlook on this and treating writing as my second job, which I am passionate about and love. I look at it as my second gig that I enjoy, and it brings great pleasure. This has helped me get through some of these challenges. I remember when I first started writing I went to a Writing Group and the folks that led it told me I sucked and asked me to buy their books to learn how to write. I bought them, and the books were so darn boring. At any rate, I love this post. Great work, friend.

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Shira's avatar

Thank you! I hope that here on Substack you can find a communtiy of writers who will actually support you.

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Bill Gerace's avatar

Thank you Ms. Shira. I sure appreciater your kind words. :) :)

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Richard Van Kirk's avatar

Hello Dear Shira, I have a large file titled, UNFINISHED DO LATER. It is filled with stories that haven't been completed. There are outlines and catchy phrases and sentences. When the time is right.... But I never stop writing!

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Shira's avatar

That's a great approach! Sometimes you just have to wait until the right time. Each project has it's time, and a little waiting won't harm it.

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M Saturnienne's avatar

Brandon Sanderson has stated that he plucked his magic system from a failed/underperforming work.

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Shira's avatar

I didn't know that. Crazy!

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Melissa Thomas's avatar

well, sort of - but also, I write as if someone, someday, would read it. There's a bit of balance there, right?

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Shira's avatar

Absolutely. I feel like you get the best of both worlds with that approach

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Obi's avatar

Insightful. I would love to collaborate with you on an upcoming article. Let me know if you are open to things of this nature.

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Shira's avatar

I'm not currently collaborating on posts. Thanks for reading :)

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Nissa Harlow's avatar

Reading a great book can be inspiring. But sometimes I'll get the urge to write after reading a particularly bad book, too! One of my novels was born of frustration. I felt like I could do better, and that spurred me to write my book. The first draft only took about two weeks. I guess I was feeling pretty inspired!

I do have to be careful about writing while I'm in the middle of reading a book, though, since I tend to absorb other authors' styles and have them bleed through into my own prose. So I read more when I'm between novel drafts.

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Shira's avatar

That's so interesting! Writing a first draft in two weeks is amazing, I never considered that frustration could be such a motivator as well.

I sometimes adopt things from what I'm reading as well, but it's usually in the form of sentence structure or certain words. I feel that this can elevates my writing, so I don't mind.

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